bfd had that happen (the dead screen on boot) several times with his previous MBP (sounds like the same one you have right now - well not the same machine, bfd handed that one on down the line - but it sounds like the same model) and this would usually occur after a hook-up to an external video source.
Some other random ideas are the video mirror key on the keyboard - press once and see if that does anything. But it could just be that you've got a dead video card, so it's not sending any signal at all. So, your idea to check video out from the DVI port is a good one, and it might actually cause a reset of whatever is creating the dead zone. Hopefully that'll happen, anyway … a dead video card might be a fsck board level repair.
